Hi @2polar Welcome to the Metamask community.
Sorry to hear about your troubles. Are you still having issues with this?
Considering you have multiple pending transactions in the queue, you may need to start from clearing out the oldest in the queue to the latest. This article should be helpful to you to clear up all the pending transactions.
If you need further assistance, please open a support ticket here with your transaction and public address details https://metamask.zendesk.com/hc/en-us
Be aware of scammers and not share your seed phrase.